What, When and Where to Put Things in Your Mouth.

Eating 101.

Eating, the process can be joyous; your taste buds are alive, your body is being nourished and sustained. Most people have some forms of joyous eating, followed by days of indecision.

Stress and hurried lifestyle lead to a sad tummy, sad taste buds, and interesting bathroom visits.

The yoga community is especially good at creating stress around meals: What should I be eating? What will cure my energy dips, my irritability, my frequent flatulence? Chia seeds this week, kombucha was so two years ago, but now I can get them combined. Do I even want them combined?

If we look to traditional cultures, be it my great grandmother in France or studying Chinese Medicine, we see common, sensible themes. Be aware that you are indeed eating, eat at regular times so your body can maintain a rhythm, and eat a wide variety of foods.

You can be like grandma, in three simple steps:

1. Eat regular meals in a relaxed, aware state.

Acknowledge what you are putting in your mouth. Ask, “is this actually food?” If it comes in a package, read the label. As the brilliant Micheal Pollan tells us, “Don’t eat anything incapable of rotting.”

In Chinese Medicine we use the meridian system, which is an interconnected pathway throughout the body where our energy or “qi” runs. Twelve of these specific pathways connect internally to our organ systems.

Chinese Medicine believes that the qi peaks in each meridian at a certain time each day. From 7 A.M. to 11 A.M. the stomach and spleen meridians get this qi boost. This is a really important time to eat. You want to nourish your stomach and spleen meridians with high quality foods. Breakfast, once again, is the most important meal of the day.

Plan your life around your meals. Who does this? Not many, or maybe only for special occasions. But doesn’t this make sense? Isn’t what we are putting into our bodies a main contributor to our health and happiness today and in the future? Try it.

Maybe it makes more sense to skip that yoga class and eat food that is worthy of ingestion.

2. Eat warming foods.

Great Grandmere Paulette and Sun Si-Mao agree that all these iced beverages, massive salads, and the raw revolution are a bit overwhelming for our sweet little bellies.

The common American breakfast of iced, sugary coffee, a big glass of orange juice, and cold cereal with mucous-producing milk typifies what not to eat. Even the blended fruit smoothie with organic protein powder is thought to be too cold.

When we consistently place cold foods into the body, we shut down the digestive fires that keep our metabolism and gut working properly.

What makes food cold? Two things. The actual temperature of food (iced water, ice cream), and the nature of food. Most raw vegetables and fruits have a cold nature. Meats tend to be warm.

Many spices can be added to foods to warm them up. Add cinnamon and ginger to your smoothie or yogurt. Eat small salads within the context of a larger meal. Eat seasonally. Large salads and fruit are more appropriate in the summer months, warming soups in the winter.

Oh, the stress of eating once again makes your jaw clench shut. How can you keep your digestion running smoothly? What can you eat for breakfast? There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but there are some basic guidelines.

Some suggestions include hot mixed grain cereals, whole eggs (fat included), sprouted grain breads with butter. When you first wake, try some warm water with lemon. See how your body responds.

Your body and digestion are your experiment. You are the master researcher with the most important data-collecting tool: how you feel.

3. Eat a variety of foods.

Eat a rainbow of colors everyday. I’m not talking pink Nerds and yellow Peeps. I’m talking a rainbow of whole foods.

Think red chard, purple kale, blueberries, yellow peppers, red apples, brown quinoa, green spinach, and black sesame seeds. When you eat all these vegetables, remember to warm them up with a light steaming or stir-frying.

I have clients tell me how they eat really healthy: a yogurt for breakfast with green tea, a protein bar for lunch with an apple, and every night, rice and lean chicken.

In the grand scheme of things, this diet isn’t so bad, but you need some variety. Mix it up. Maybe your body isn’t the best at digesting a particular “healthy” food. If you are regularly mixing it up, your body has multiple chances to absorb the nutrients it needs.

When you choose to eat meals that follow these three easy, common sense guidelines, your body will reward you. Your mind will be pleased by the free time found from no longer fretting over meals, and your taste buds will delight in the subtle flavors of a whole rainbow of foods.

So try it out and let me know how it goes.

And lastly, enjoy your food.

“He showed the words “chocolate cake” to a group of Americans and recorded their word associations. “Guilt” was the top response. If that strikes you as unexceptional, consider the response of French eaters to the same prompt: “celebration.” ~ Michael Pollan

 

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Letting Go of DOG.

A few songs to celebrate your love.

When my dog was a pup I could never imagine that his incessant search for play and attention would mature into the old man that now inhabits dog beds and spends most of his day in rest.

I didn’t realize he would age faster than me.

As my dear friends have had to let their dogs pass on to what is next, my heart aches to know that one day I may have to make the same decision for my sweet boy. I’ve been fighting his aging, hoping I can find the pill, the right acupuncture point or the good adjustment that will release the aches in his body.

But I can’t.

My first time living with an aging family member, I realize I must let him get old. I must accept that he is entering his sunset years. His body follows what is natural. He has lived a sweet life, with adventure, adoration and most recently, lots of food scraps from the table. I love him dearly. I need to give him the space to be who he is right now and stop trying to fix the situation.

We treat the end of life so differently in our pets than we do with our humans. Our animals teach us how to live life and also how to let go. What are they teaching us that we do not accept?

In tribute to all the furry family members, thank you for teaching us so much, for showing us pure love, and for being so humble and eager to live life. You speak to us in your quiet ways, opening up our hearts, encouraging us to let love in. The touch of your sweet nose on my skin will help melt my rough exterior for years to come.

In Tribute to Love:

Heavenly Day – Patty Griffin

Man of the Hour – Nora Jones

walking my dog – Nellie McKay

black eyed dog – nick drake

all good things – klaatu

In loving memory of Ella and Kodiak.

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The Burning Question

Sometimes I get in front of the computer and it is my almost 10 year old daughter who breaks the spell for me.
“Mom, get off the computer.”

Simple, effective. I raise my head, look at the time and see that I have been fully consumed for quite awhile. The online community holds great worth though, and this is my dilemma. I can learn so much from all the brilliant, bold, beautiful people out there.
Today, I found a question: What boat do you need to burn?
Danielle LaPorte tells it like this:

There’s a story my friend Pasha told me about about a mythic band of magic-loving Irish folk. Feeling the call for newness, they would forge out to settle on a new island. Necessarily, they would make the journey by ship. When they arrived to their next land they would unpack — and then promptly burn their boats.

No desire to go back. Focused forward. New journey, new way of getting there, new results.

So what boat do I need to burn to find new discovery? To be fully in the present? To be ready for my new discovery?

My boat is fear. Fear can be helpful, can keep you from burning your hand on the stove. It can also hold you back. I work hard to further my expertise. I take the course work. I learn. I study. I gain the knowledge. And than Fear jumps in and stops me from delivering my new bag of tricks.

Today, Fear, I let you burn off shore. I know how to keep myself safe. You have taught me well. Now I most move on. I must learn to share my gifts, my knowledge, my expertise with more trust in how I can help others. I invite Trust onto my island. May Trust take me to my next level.

Ready to share which boat your need to burn?
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Holistic Health Includes the Whole Family


 
“The whole is more than the sum of its parts.”  -Aristotle, Metaphysica
In holistic health, we speak about treating the whole person. It makes sense.  We are complex beings with emotions, thoughts, and body parts. Each choice we make affects the whole of our being. We have made multiple choices to be who we are at this very moment. In the same vein, whatever health concerns we have, we’ve made many choices to reach our current state of health or ill health. Multiple things come together to make us who we are today.
Holistic health can reach beyond our individual selves. It can also speak of our environment and our communities. Our closest community is our family. Individual families are little communities with their own special rules, needs and values. Each family member fulfills a role. When one family member has health concerns, the whole family experiences changes. Illness can cause stress on the whole family, changing the dynamic of our most tight-knit community.With Community Acupuncture (CA), multiple people are treated in a common room, creating a space of peace and healing. The CA center also becomes it’s own community where people are invested in getting well and staying that way. As parents, grandparents, sisters, brothers and children, CA is a wonderful opportunity to share this healing with our whole families.When whole families are treated together in CA, individuals are able to focus on their specific needs, while all family members benefit from stress reduction. Self-care is modeled to the youngest members, setting them up for a proactive, empowered approach to their health. The experience allows for positive bonding through relaxation and mindfulness.

This broader view of holistic health encourages healthy change at a deep and dynamic level, not only affecting a piece of the whole, but in fact, affecting change for the whole family and community.

What better gift can you give your family?

Community Acupuncture now offered at MV Pediatrics in Quincy, MA. Call (617) 745-0050 to set up an appointment for your whole family.

The Breathing Room

–Thich Nhat Hanh

We have a room for everything – eating, sleeping, watching TV – but we have no room for Mindfulness.
I recommend that we set up a small room in our homes and call it a ‘Breathing Room’, where we can be alone and practice just breathing and smiling, at least in difficult moments.
That little room should be regarded as an Embassy of the Kingdom of Peace. It should be respected, and not violated by anger, shouting, or things like that.  When a child is about to be shouted at, she can take refuge in that room. Neither the father nor the mother can shout at her anymore. She is safe within the grounds of the Embassy. Parents sometimes will need to take refuge in that room, also, to sit down, breathe, smile and restore themselves. Therefore, that room is for the benefit of the whole family.
I suggest that the breathing room be decorated very simply, and not too bright. You may want to have a small bell, one with a beautiful sound, a few cushions or chairs, and perhaps a vase of flowers to remind us of our true nature. You or your children can arrange flowers in mindfulness, smiling. Every time you feel a little upset, you know that the best thing to do is to go to that room, open the door slowly, sit down, invite the bell to sound – in my country we don’t say ‘strike’ or ‘hit’ a bell – and begin to breathe.  The bell will help not only the person in the breathing room, but the others in the house as well.
I believe that every home should have one room for breathing. Simple practices like conscious breathing and smiling are very important. They can change our civilization.

Eat. Sleep. Poop: A New Year’s Resolution Love Story.

Let’s bring New Year’s resolutions back to the basics.

Many high functioning people can’t eat, sleep or poop with ease or contentment. Weird. These are basic biological functions. How have we drifted so far from balance to miss out on these simple joys? Why do we think it’s normal to have difficulty in these essential areas of life? We actually need to do all of these things, regularly, to live. We do. I swear.

How is your sleep? How is your appetite? How is your poop? As a practitioner of Chinese Medicine, these are the core questions I ask every person I treat. A patient may want me to only fix their bum knee. I still want to know about their poop. Your poop is telling you something. Listen up.

A friend of mine told me her usually healthy appetite is really low lately. She thinks this is good. No, I said. This is not good. When one of your basic  systems is off, it is a signal from your really smart body. Our elegantly, intelligent flesh is trying to tell our overworked, obstinate mind that something is wrong. The warning signs, like no appetite, might even look good to some at first. But your body is giving you a head’s up that if you continue on your current path, rough waters are ahead.

Most times, the answers are easy. Slow down. Now…, slow down a wee bit more. Eat real food. Avoid stimulants before sleep, including foods, arguments and dare I say it, the internet. Sometimes the answers may be more complex. Find the practitioner that believes in the stories your body is telling and is also on your wave length, whether it be an acupuncturist, massage therapist, a nutritionist or a belly dance teacher… You choose. You know best.

This New Years’ get back to the most basic functions of your most valuable possession. Tune in to the story being told. What is your body telling you?

 

 

The TOMS Shoe Guy Writes a Book: “Start Something That Matters.” A Book Review.

TOMS is a really cool shoe company. It is. The shoes have subtle, classic style. You wear them with a tiny seed of knowing that you may be helping someone, somewhere. You get to buy something, holding tight to believing your seed of good outweighs your consumerism. They have an inspiring story, past, present and future. Seane Corn wears them and she is uber cool. It’s a movement. College and high school kids form groups and get behind a cause.
When I heard Blake Mycoskie was writing a book, I thought I needed to get it from the library ASAP to add to my mounting tower of inspirational, motivational, change-the-world stack that I promise myself to read. I got it and I stacked it.
The cover looked nice. A small piece of me knew I would never read it. Sometimes the small pieces can be wrong. The next day I picked it up. I opened it up and was brought to a comfy place while reading the poem that opens the book.

Success

To laugh often and love much
To win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children
To earn the appreciation of honest citizens and endure the betrayal of false friends
To appreciate beauty
To find the best in others
To give of one’s self
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived.
This is to have succeeded.

Blake’s book attributes it Elisabeth-Anne Anderson Stanley. I liked that. I had a high-school teacher that changed my life in small degrees who had presented our 16-year-old minds with this poem. I decided to read on.
The book starts with the TOMS story. This is what I heard: Boy has entrepreneurial tendencies and has started companies that were ok, but not great financially or spiritually. No true calling answered. Boy goes on Amazing Race with sister and loses. Argentina is one of the countries they “race” through. Boy falls in love with Argentina. Boy thinks Argentinean shoes are kinda cool. Boy sees poverty. Boy’s heart and mind awaken and communicate. Tomorrow’s Shoes is born but gets a quick name redesign to TOMS. Smart Boy.
As yogi’s, we see the problems in our neighborhoods and across our globe. As yogi’s, we also feel them. I have meet so many amazing yogi’s wanting, needing, burning to make change. I am one of them. We have brilliant ideas and hearts full of compassion. But we get stuck and overwhelmed and our brilliant ideas get beat down because we don’t have the tools or support to get our project off the ground.

Blake begins to give us some tools. I pass them on in easily digestible bites:
1. Articulate Your Passion. Find your Story.
If you didn’t have to worry about $, what would you do with your time?br /What is the emstory/em that precedes your desire? Tell people your story to help you better understand the important parts. Their reaction will help you make it concise and true. Know that your emstory/em is very important. Your story garners support and interest in your project. Your story touches hearts and motivates action.

2. Embrace the Fear.
As a society, we champion boldness. But fear is little talked about. Every “successful” person has faced multiple fears, multiple letdowns and failures, and has chosen to keep going. Believe in your ability to make positive change. Accept that you will fail at things. Decide that you will keep living your passion, and moving towards your project’s goals.

3. Find your team
The importance of a strong, supportive team is huge. You will not have all the skills, experience and knowledge to start your project. No one person can. Find the folks to complement your strengths. emTrust/em your team. Believe in the abilities of each person to make the best choices for your project. Let your project be the team’s project

4. Start simple and get lots of free.
Start with a specific and simple project. You can add to it as it grows.Check out a www.startsomethingthatmatters.com for a boatload of free resources to get you started

5. Now that you know your story, tell your story well.
Allow your online presence to affirm your story and values. Make sure it gives people the opportunity to connect to you and your story. Share your story with bigmouths that love your story. Your online presence, like a website, may be your first platform for figuring out who your project is. Take time to craft it well. Building your website is similar to building your brand. What are you telling people about you and your project?

6. Look for bigger business that wants to be part of your story.
Many bigger businesses have funds for giving. Are you a part of their community? Can they connect to your project? Ask them to sponsor an event or a trial period of your program. They will benefit by supporting your brilliant story. And you get some much needed support and publicity.

One of my personal goals is create an online and in the flesh community that supports the passions of our amazing community of yogis. A place where we help each other build our community minded projects so the dreams don’t die out with exhaustion and isolation. Our community rocks. Let’s help keep each other’s fires burnings. More on that later.

Until then, maybe you want to read these too:

The Tipping Point – Malcolm Gladwell
The Art of Woo – G. Richard Shell & Mario Moussa

“Poser. My Life In Twenty-three Yoga Poses.” A Reflection on the Book.

 

I heard an interview with the author of “Poser.  My Life In Twenty-three Yoga Poses.”, Claire Dederer, on the radio. I was instantly embarrassed by my self-absorbed connection to this book. I probably heard the interview on NPR, which just added to the shamed feeling of entitled explorations into my inner soul that sometimes visit me when in the yoga studio. How lucky are we, that we have the opportunity to sit and contemplate ourselves and our place in the world.
Deciding to drop the shame, I quickly fell into the story that Dederer, who comes from the Pacific Northwest, was telling. She was telling a story common to many 30-something women with a kid or two, a husband, a comfortable life and well-worn yoga mat. Survival needs met, we get confused about our existence, our happiness, our desires, and finally what our needs are beyond survival. Do we need organic sheets for our newborn? How do you explain that your bottle-fed baby will survive without your nipple? What happens if I only go to yoga once this week? 
I grew up in New Jersey. When my daughter was a baby, I returned to New Jersey for a few years. I don’t mean to reinforce any Jersey stereotypes, but I did not feel the above pressures as a young mother.  Maybe I should have had an SUV, and I probably should have had a husband, but cloth diapers were not an expected accessory. I was the hippy, odd ball momma, and to this day, I still have romanticized visions of living in Seattle or Boulder and most recently, Asheville, where your neighbor raises chickens and the whole family rides their bikes to the co-op together.
But back to the novel. I don’t remember the last time I bought a new book. After hearing the radio interview, I so badly wanted to read my story (which was improved by taking place in romanticized locales), that I went to the bookstore and bought it. It was only in hardcover it was so new. 
The book is full of gems. Dederer is a fantastic writer. Her story is common, but her writing is not. She nails so many of the experiences we have as we aspire to be yogis, mindful parents and partners, while still balancing a career. I would read any book she wrote. Her word craft could make any story hilarious, devastating, and moving.
Her book is a collection of teachings neatly woven into novel form so that we may float on the poetry of her words. As a yoga teacher, I gained insight into what can make a skillful teacher. Dederer says of yoga practice, “don’t make your feet or your body go anywhere.  It’s sort of a radical idea:  to be unready, to be immovable. Inertia, you realize as you stand there, is a kind of power.” Discovering a new teacher she shares, “Spellman said sitting in meditation worked just the way the tracker described.  If you’re still enough, the wild mind, the mind that isn’t preoccupied with oughts and shoulds and the minutiae of life, will approach you and make itself known.” After being with her idea of a genius, she says, “His teaching …gave off a kind of heat.  It was crucial, what he was transmitting. He had to get it off his chest.”
Dederer’s book captures us as we move on our yoga mats and through life with too much thought and too much self-awareness. The book is a mirror and a story. We are not being told to do anything. But we are listening and we can see our reflections.
“I didn’t know it at the time, but it was at this moment, when I decided that I couldn’t be bothered to learn the right way to do yoga but that instead I would continue doing it, following my teacher and doing my work…Submission, trust…imperfection, the release of ego – these were the things that would save me from myself… You can’t go deeper and know what you’re doing the whole time.”

When You Think You’re Pissed At Yoga.

You know the feeling. Yoga is a big part of your life.  You look to some of your teachers like they’re your own ultra-human guru. You love yoga.  You lust yoga. It makes you fierce and strong and gooey all in one deep in-breath.
But one day you wake up and you just don’t want to go to yoga… ever again. Overnight your love has transformed.  Yoga is bullshit.  And you are done riding the bullshit wagon of legs behind your head and sweet ass lulu gear uniforms. You are done with hands to your heart and “om” on a soft, fluffy cloud.  What the hell are you all doing in class on your 50 dollar eco mats with your coco water paying ever growing fees for 75 minutes of entitled escapism?
This feeling lasts for a few days. Maybe a week. Maybe it’s a part of your premenstrual routine. Eventually, after many dark days of separation and martyrdom, you realize it’s not yoga you are pissed at. Sure, there are things you can mock and complain about, but that can happen with any aspect of life. Yoga and you, like any long-term relationship, are bound to get in a few disagreements. You realize the bubble world of escapism only exists if you leave your yoga on that 50 dollar mat or strip if off like those 80 dollar pants.  You remember that your t-shirt and sweats work just as good as your designed in Canada lycra blends.  Maybe your heart could use a little massage at the end of the day.  And just like your loving spouse or kick ass BFF, yoga can hold your anger and wait. Yoga will be there when you get over yourself and choose to do something good for that over thinking mind yours. You can even choose to share a little bit of that good with someone else.
Next time my hormonal cycle screams “pissed at yoga”, I’ll pull on my sweats and pop a downward dog, no matter how much I fight it. I’ll wag that dog and laugh at my misplaced outrage. There are plenty of things to be pissed about. I my heart of hearts, I know that yoga is not one of them.

Why Athletes LOVE Acupuncture

Why do athletes LOVE acupuncture?… because it works!  Many sports teams now have acupunctururists that regularly treat their players, and better, help them heal quick to keep them in the game.  Ted Lilly of the Dodgers, recently relied on acupuncture for this very reason.  Lilly, who previouly wasn’t an acupuncture beliver says of his treatment, “I’ve had [treatment] the last couple of days and I noticed it as soon as I got off the table.  I had more movement after being so locked up.”
Haro Ogawa serves as the team acupuncturist for the San Francisco Giants and has previously worked for the New York Mets, and privately for the Golden State Warriors basketball team, NASCAR drivers and the Japanese national baseball team.  David Groeschner, head athletic trainer for the Giants,  stated that Ogawa’s work with the players has been great. “The players love him and love the treatments. In our game, we are out there every day, so the players get sore and banged up. They definitely get back into the game more quickly because of his work.”
Sports acupuncturist Matt Callison, L.Ac., who has traveled with the Minnesota Vikings  and has worked with  many of the San Diego Chargers players, says, “There is much that acupuncture can do for sports injuries, especially combined with western therapy. Acupuncture can quickly relieve pain and inflammation, and move blood stagnation (i.e., release osmotic pressure) away from the injury. This, in turn, creates a more efficient healing environment.”